结伴同行

请在路途中与我为伴, 不要热情, 也无需浪漫;
请在前方等我, 不要焦急, 也不要厌烦。
只待于与我同行。

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Opps... Now look what I've done~

I drank a venti size of Honey Orange Latte just to get the Chinese New Year key chain from Starbucks last night, with CH. My heart beat so fast and I felt so high when I reached my room after sending CH home, around 12.15a.m. Then I started doing my data key-in, and without full consciousness I typed these on my FB status, around 2a.m.:

“I like you but I'm not going to wait for you to take your sweet time in deciding on your feelings. You should have known/felt it if you aren't an ignoramus; or pretend to be one. To lift or let, you choose; to remain static + waiting passively or keep moving + exploring, my choice.”

When I login to my FB this morning, hahahaha.... My male friends are so responsive~

Fabian wrote: I can understand your sentiment. Women, unlike men... have things that need a degree of certainty. Or, time is running out?
Me: time never runs out; however, patience does at times. YET in this case, it's more of not wanting to be in the middle of uncertainty rather than out of patience. U'd be surprised of how patient i am pal.

Bon: You should emit an explicit signal to men to show that what you want. Typical men couldn't read subtle hints and worst still, he may be afraid of your rejection.
Me: all men n women should read 'Men r fr Mars; Women r fr Venus'. N yes men might be scared of rejection, bt hello... women on e oth hand, could be scared 2 death of rejection too u c... TT_TT

Bon: You are a strong independent woman.Why not take the initiative? Men love that.


O'Neil:

"Ah the game of love. Such curiosities that. I've read that damn book but frankly a book is just that, a book. In life, what you actually practice matters.

It's not rightly about just a man and a women. It's about relationships. And does it really matter in a relationship who makes the first move? Relationship among all things is also a test of courage. If you feel that to even to start a relationship is not worth that amount of courage, then I don't think it's worth it. Starting on a wrong foot will mean wrong steps throughout the journey. Rather than saying the bugger is an ignoramous, ask if your subtle suggestions is just that, too subtle. Do put into consideration that what might be strong subtleness for you might just be a pea smacking at a castle wall with the other. And this goes both ways ya. Cause the dude might be sending you signals that you just fail to pick up.

Relationships is not about guessing and magic. It's about gritty table top discussions and fights. I walked up to my tigress one fine day, told her out right that I like her and a few other girls in my class. It stunted her for a bit but we hit it off from there and never looked back. If the dude turn tail and runs when you say that, he's not worth it. If he never thought of doing that, he's not worth it."

So funny, something written in the middle of the night could get these replies, half asleep somemore T_T|||
Perhaps I should look at it from another angle: my friends care about me, hence the replies. haha.
K, enough of this. Ha ve to get back to my love-hate data TT_TT|||||||

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